This small-talk topic builds rapport and boosts win rates
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Mary Kay Ash.
Joe Girard (google him).
All incredible sales people. Some of which had some serious, ah, issues (looking at you, Belfort)… but all of them could sure sell.And no “best-of-the-best salesperson” list is complete without The Office’s Michael G. Scott.
But the true #1? Andy Bernard. Why? Well, he went to Cornell. Have you ever heard of it?
What can we learn from Andy “I went to Cornell” Bernard?
As it turns out, a lot.
Did we mention where Andy went to college? CORNELL.
Turns out mentioning your school is a winning strategy when it comes to the essential sales tactic of building rapport.
According to our data pulled from 800k deals, talking about your alma mater increases win rates by 8%, on average.
Why talking about your alma mater… matters
If you’re anything like me, you fondly look back at the “glory days” of college. Even if you’re not like me, it pays to remember that others do look back at their own glory days.
It’s a transformative time in most young adults’ lives where we gain independence, build strong relationships with new friends, and is a pivotal time to explore, discover, and pursue our passions.
I completed my undergraduate studies at the (very) small state university of Geneseo in Western New York, and unlike Andy’s alma mater Cornell, you actually may have never heard of it. But when I find myself talking with someone who has, I immediately lean in and become more engaged in the conversation.
Me: Where did you live senior year?
Stranger: Right off Court Street.
Me: NO KIDDING!? What was your favorite pizza spot?
Stranger: Mama Mia’s of course!
Me: Oh man, a slice of heaven!
Stranger: I was on the rugby team, did you know Tim?
Me: Tim! Yes! Great guy! Terrible at rugby though.
Deals are made.
This deep connection goes well beyond reliving the past and sharing stories of late nights at my favorite off-campus watering hole…or library! (hi, Mom)
Maybe a buyer just took their child on a college tour at your old school or maybe they’re dialing in from a city near your old stomping grounds. As we analyzed the data, this topic organically worked its way into small talk in a countless number of ways.
This common bond with one’s alma mater is less about your university and more about finding that topic that builds familiarity and trust, creating (and often strengthening) a common connection.
In today’s digital sales environment, this trust and connection between buyer and seller is everything. In fact, it’s scientifically proven to work.
That’s because it plays into two of the seven principles outlined in Robert Cialdini’s book, Influence: Science and Practice: Liking and Unity.
- Liking: We are more likely to agree with what we like.
- Unity: We value being part of a team or group through a shared identity.
When talking about your alma mater works
One could argue it’s always important to build rapport.
However, building trust and finding common ground (aka, “liking and unity”) are more important in large and complex deals.
While possibly helpful, the impact is not as great when talking about a short or highly transactional sale.
School mentions actually correlate with increased win rates significantly more as deal size increases.
But mentioning the school you attended for 2, 4, (7!) years is not the only way to win over buyers (and increase win rates).
Other ways to build rapport with buyers
Discussing your alma matter certainly moves the needle on win rates, but what about other ways to build rapport?
- Don’t confuse small talk with building rapport: Again, think about the weather example. Or “how was your weekend?” or “Anything fun planned for this weekend?” That’s small talk… which is discovery for rapport building.
- Turn your video camera on!: Visual appearance can be a positive means of building better relationships with your buyers.
- Delight buyers with the unexpected: Think gifts … even something as simple as a $5 coffee gift card. Aside from the nice gesture, the gift also triggers the law of reciprocity.
Now, some more data.
While college mentions move the needle for sellers, NCAA Football is the most popular sport mentioned on sales calls.
This makes sense. After all, college football is one of the most popular sports (at least in the United States). Football (American soccer) and Cricket take the cake internationally.
However, more niche sports like skiing and golf actually have a larger impact.
What does this all mean?
Alma mater … favorite sports team … even the weather – shhhh …
What really matters?
Finding common ground.
Uncovering topics where we can develop and strengthen our personal connection.
Build that rapport
A recent LinkedIn poll we conducted asked sellers what the hardest thing was about selling virtually. Not surprising? Of the nearly 2,000 responses, the overwhelming majority (57%), said building true rapport.
Want more ways to build rapport? Check out the 7 habits of master rapport builders.
Over the next several months we’ll be identifying new topics that are backed by data and proven to work to build connections with your buyers no matter where you are. Be sure to subscribe to Gong Labs so you don’t miss them!